ALSO so weird or creepy or whatever but we’re driving to alabama in august through kentucky, tennessee, etc. (going through louisville, to nashville), so if anyone has any suggestions on where to stop, lemme know :) we’re stopping in nashville overnight before getting to smith county.

also, the roads through that area are so weird and windy a (windey?) compared to the midwest, so if there is anywhere neat to stop where we can take a dog (and i can take a break from feeling dizzy), lemme know plz.

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#i thiink it's i65 we're taking but i can't remember  #also i mean like whiiiiindy  #like whine but with a dy?  #idk i just get vertigo driving on those roads after living in the midwest for so long 

artevince-sempre replied to your post: patrick and i are watching oitnb and h…

tbh everyone i know is distracted by captain janeway being in a 21st century american jail.

haha! true. i was just amazed he identified her off of the one line she says in the first part of the first episode! and i’ve watched it several times and just never thought of that!

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patrick and i are watching oitnb and he totally identified yoga jones as patty mayonnaise, AND SHE WAS!

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#how do people not talk about this?????  #she was totally patty mayonnaise!  #ointb 
it’s like he’s not even here

it’s like he’s not even here

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i don’t have clinical tomorrow, so this is what i’m doing tonight

i don’t have clinical tomorrow, so this is what i’m doing tonight

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#cheese and bread and fruit and cheese and wiiiiiiiine 

What’s it like to work alongside so many other women of color?

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We live in a society that’s sexist in ways it doesn’t understand. One of the consequences is that men are extremely sensitive to being criticized by women. I think it threatens them in a very primal way, and male privilege makes them feel free to lash out.

This is why women are socialized to carefully dance around these issues, disagreeing with men in an extremely gentle manner. Not because women are nicer creatures than men. But because our very survival can depend on it.

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#so unrelated but i have a lot of problems with this when i'm on the ward  #like  #when you're talking to someone who is schizotypal and they tell you they love you  #you absolutely have to draw a line as a provider  #and it is against everything you have ever known if you have been socialized as a woman  #but you HAVE TO because you aren't doing them any favors if you don't